Dating Your Best Friend

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Now, that caught your attention, ain’t it? Well, it should. We all have been in a situation when we secretly had a crush on our best friend and always wanted to be someone more than a friend to him or her, but we couldn’t. Sounds so familiar, isn’t it? But let’s face the cruel fact. Turning from a friend into a lover isn’t that easy.

The Main Problem

Yes, there is the main problem. You are already stuck in the friend’s zone. And once you start to see someone as a friend, you normally can’t think of that person in a different manner. So does that mean your chances of dating your best friend is sabotaged? Well, not exactly. Though it can be pretty hard to attain, we can definitely get ourselves promoted in her eyes with proper umm manipulation of mindset, actions and behavior.

Yes, that’s true! Even if it does sound to be too good, it is possible. And that applies for both men and women. In fact, the following steps that I will line out can be effectively used by both men and women to turn their best friend into lover, but it must be made sure to use the tactics in a proper way for it to work. ‘In a proper way’ means you should know how to do the right thing at the right time in the right manner.

One Important Note

And one more important thing you should know. Friendship is ONE sweet relationship that doesn’t come with the complications and on which you can always count on.  Now, on your quest to turn a friend into a lover, you can very well jeopardize the existence of the friendship even and that’s definitely not a good thing. At least I will always say ‘friendship first’.

3-Step Process of Turning Your Best Friend Into Your Love

But anyway, let’s not waste any more time and dive straight into the matter, shall we? Now, before we start, do note that I will list down the steps in a sequential manner, which can overlap from time to time.

Step one – Break rapport right now

Yes, as a friend, that also a best friend, you probably have a lot of rapport with him. He depends on you for everything and every time he meets a new girl, he tells you. Now, this is not good for your prospect. Break this rapport. He should not get so comfortable with you. It even goes if you are a boy and your friend is a girl. Don’t let her become too comfortable with you. AS A FRIEND! Two lovers are comfortable with each other as well. But they are NOT friends. You cannot let him be comfortable with you as a friend. So break rapport with him. Next time, he says his underwear is dirty, change the topic.

Step two – Start grooming like a movie star

Okay, that was an overstatement. But yes, you need to start paying more attention to yourself and bring out your best and sexual self. He is too used to seeing you in your loose pajamas and faded t-shirts. Do some makeup, bright lipstick and darker eye shadows. Wear a slimmer sleeveless evening gown the next time you go out with him. If you are a man, get ready to do some serious shopping, mate. It’s a well-known fact that men have an AWFUL sense of fashion. Take a girl friend along with you to help you. Whatever it takes, just ramp up your style if you want to get her attention in a ‘different’ way. It doesn’t take too much. But something that makes you stand out will be enough.

Step three – Flirt, flirt and flirt!

And that also in front of him. You just cannot go wrong on this. And you just have to do it even if you don’t want to. This is the most important ultimate of the 3-step process you see. The trick is to make him feel abandoned and jealous! Every time he sees you flirting with other men and those other men are reverting back trying to get a chance with you, you make him feel like he is losing out on something. And that works, baby! He will start to look at you in a different way.

And this goes even if you are a guy and you want to try this tactic on a girl. Just flirt with every girl in front of her. Just get social. Have fun. Indicate how you suddenly got sexual with one of your girlfriends other night. Something that gets her imagination going will do the trick. All you have to do is make her look at you in a sexual way. She is already set to see you in an unwanted ‘platonic’ way, from where you want to get out as soon as possible.

Before You Start

That’s almost all of it. Just do these three steps in perfect sequence. Your love story will take off pretty soon. You will soon have the best lover in your best friend and the best friend in your best lover, which is all you ever wanted. But before you stop reading, let me remind you once again. Friendship is still one of the most precious things on earth. Trying to turn your friend into your lover and losing that invaluable friendship is one of the silliest things that you can ever do. So, before you take any step, do think a thousand times, if it is something that will hurt her. Remember, you want her to see you as a lover, not as an asshole, a mistake in her life.

Now go ahead. Memorize the three steps carefully, again and again. And then get onto your mission. Trust me on this. You will never regret it. And before I sign off, here’s something you must know. Even my lover was once my best friend and it was one heck of a try. I went through a lot of emotional turmoil but to be honest, I can daresay I am the happiest person on this earth now.