Flirting Signs That Shows A Man Is Interested In You

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You are attracted towards someone but you are not sure whether that person feels for you or not. You are confused about your own feelings and his responses are not helping you in any way. All of us have sailed in the same boat and gone through the same confusion at some point of time in our lives.

To think that the other person does not feel the same way about you can be distressing. However you cannot be over optimistic and presume that the other person is equally enamored by your charm. You need to be careful while dealing with this confusion.

When you are attracted towards someone, it is very natural that your manner of speaking and your body language will change in front of that person. The same thing is true, if applied, in reverse. If the guy is attracted towards you, he will display changes in his mannerisms around you and would definitely show some signs of flirting. If you can understand the signs of flirting, you will come to know what he actually feels for you.

Flirting does not necessarily imply opting for vulgar means to attract someone’s attention. It can be healthy if practiced within the limits of decency and in a dignified way. In fact it can be quite helpful if you want to convey your feelings to someone. Below are some ways which will help you understand and interpret signs of flirting.

Trying to Seek Attention

Teasing a girl is the very first sign of flirting. If a guy is interested in you, he will endeavor to seek your attention by means of teasing you. Don’t take this is a negative stride. His reasons for teasing you are not to humiliate you but to engage you in a conversation with him. He is trying to get you to notice him. And you might as well grant him the pleasure of your company by being playful about the teasing instead of getting offended by it.

Eye Contact

Want another clue about what is going on in your guy’s mind? Notice if he tries to establish eye contact with you and observe if he frequently tries to look at you, with or without any reason.  If he is trying to make eye contact with you, he is probably trying to convey his feelings to you which he cannot say explicitly.

Being Humorous

Another sign which qualifies for evident flirting is making loud noises or laughing a bit too loudly or cracking jokes. If your guy is being quite humorous, it is possible that he wants you to notice that he can be quite fun and charming to be around. Moreover he is trying to gain the limelight in the gathering. This is just another way of impressing you and catching your attention. Your involvement in his jest can set his spirits soaring high as this is what he wants.

Perfect Demeanor

If a guy is interested in you then he would make sure that every time he meets you, he is able to leave a positive impression on your mind about his looks. He would dress immaculately and would try to look as presentable as possible to impress you.

All in Praise

Another apparent sign of flirting is that your guy would not miss even a single chance to complement you about your graceful beauty and perfection. He would be all in praise about your flawless dressing style and the way you conduct yourself. He would shower you with beautiful compliments about your gorgeous beauty.  He would check you out every time you make an entry.

Physical Contact

If the guy, knowingly or unknowingly, brushes against you or tries to hold your hand it is another sign that he is trying to flirt with you. He would try to touch you ‘accidentally’ but you can figure out the truth by notice that he touches you more frequently than he touches other girls. Once the rapport between you and him starts building up, he might even start invading the lines of physical boundaries by leaning towards you while talking or stroking your hair on the pretext of something trifle.

Steal the Limelight

If a guy is trying to flirt with you, he would try and act like the leader of the group and steal the limelight by putting down other group members. He would want to impress you with his crazy stunts or loud body movements. He would try to walk in a cow boyish manner or puff up his chest or lean back on the chair while sitting. These are some of the tell-tale signs which guys convey to show that they are interested in a girl.

Using a Different Tone

While flirting, guys tend to use a different voice tone with the girl they are interested in. The guy would try to make his voice sound a bit heavier and huskier while talking to you. If you are worried, his will become extremely polite and caring. These are some of signs of flirting. If the guy, in whom you are interested, is displaying such signs, it is an indirect way to convey to you that he is simply awed by you and feels for you.

If the guy is trying to flirt with you, it is important that you too show some signs of interest or else he might presume that you are not interested in him. So don’t hold back. If he is flirting with you, show signs of flirtation from your side as well. Run your fingers through your hair whenever he is around or try to make a pout while sipping soda, maintain eye contact with him, get involved in his jokes and laugh at them, brush against his arm accidentally, dress flawlessly when you have to meet him, use a different body language around him, imitate his body movements and smile at him more than usual. Your guy will definitely notice that you are reciprocating his feelings and this might be the start of a relationship between you and him.

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