Relationship Tips
December 26, 2008
The relationship between men and women is the first relationship on earth since the time of Adam and Eve. It is one of the most important and beautiful relationships ever created by god. Love is the most beautiful feeling on earth which makes one feel good and happy without any reason.
The basic foundation of a relationship between a man and a woman is love. But there are people who are indecisive by nature and thus insult this relationship.
Men and women have different approaches towards this relationship. Men use their heads to think over matters more than their heart, while women run their lives with willingness to their emotions. Men like to think more rationally about things, while the women believe that the whole thing works out when you go to the direction of the heart.
Men are planners while the women are spontaneous in these matters. Most of the men keep planning through out their lives and never do what they have planned as they keep changing their plans and keep on planning.
Here are some tips for women who are motivated to make a difference and who wish to bring relationships to an exclusively new level in this world.
The first and most important step is to realize that you are more empowered than your male partner, when it comes to the expression of your own emotional life. Helping your partner up to speed emotionally is the second step. It’s an investment in your relationship to help him along.
Here is how you can help him:-
a- Try and understand where he places himself.
b- Be patient with him as he tries to improve.
c- Take time to display your feelings.
d- Be there for his assistance.
The emotional life of men is mainly suppressed in their subconscious mind. Or you can say that it is blocked in there by some negative memory from the past. Therefore it is necessary to remove those memories so that fresh emotions can make way. Marriage for men can never be what it is for women. It remains ‘I do’ for the rest of their lives, while women try to find security in this institution.
A walkway in life is needed by everybody. Marriage is the walkway where the womanhood sees progress. For some, marriage is the worst thing which can happen in a relationship, but women see it as a way for true commitment.
Love and relationships are very complicated. There are several circumstances that revolve around a relationship, and are unavoidable. Sometimes one has to part ways with the person he truly loves.
You are spot on. As a man, I would like to say thank you. Believe it or not, we want to have good relationships too.