Turning A Guy Down
April 15, 2009
Love is the most beautiful thing in this world, but if a guy loves you and he is not able to understand your refusal, then you need to turn him down through one best way or the other. As this type of love could really become a headache for a girl.
But if a guy whom you do not know is after you then it is quite easy to turn him down as compared to the one who knows or who was your friend for quite a long time. Most of the time, you need to be harsh enough to convey your message. Below are some more points which would help you to turn down a guy:
For guys who are not aware more about you
1. If a guy is following you on a road or mall then keep walking instead of looking back or stopping by as he may feel this otherwise. Most of the times it happens that he would pass a compliment to you, so just say “Thanks” and proceed ahead. If he insists you to stop and listen to him for a minute or so, then just say that you are getting late for some place.
2. Make your body language to convey your refusal. In case he tries to stop you or comes in your way then stand in front of him with your shoulders pointing away from him. He would surely ask you your number. In this scenario simply say “I am sorry I can’t give you the one as I am not interested in you”. As soon as you have passed this message simply start walking, find some crowded place to go.
3. Try to get involved with your friends as this would make him understand that you are really not interested. If still he moves after you then your friends can give him more hints about your refusal.
4. Stick to your words and keep your no in front of him in every situation. He might show you some empathy and get some attention but still be on your word. In some cases you will find a guy getting rude with you but don’t worry as this is situation when he had understood your refusal.
For the one who knows you more or even less
1. If you are around that guy then don’t give him any footage. As he already have a sought of crush on you so don’t offer him anything as such that he has more to dream about you.
2. Keep space while talking to him so that in case he tends to move closer to you, then you can take a step back from him.
3. Make him sure that you are good with him as a friend and don’t want any other relation beyond that. A smart guy would make his mind set as a friend and will understand you.
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